The Small Things That Girls Can Do For Guys, Sometimes?
A Reminder For All The Girls In A Mans(Gentlemans) Life.
How A Gentleman Feels…
- If you have a car, drive once in a while. We love our cars, but its not like we are the only ones who have the car.
- Take us out occasionally. Plan something, not on holidays only, but just an average day. We’d very much appreciate it.
- If we are a couple minutes late, or even a half hour late, know that when we get there, all we care about is you. Don’t make us regret coming there because you’re mad.
- Show us that you love us. We have our own lives when we are alone, but when we are together with you’s, we cannot be the only ones who hug you and kiss you from behind. Mix it up.
- Don’t ask for more than we already give you. We have a million things we want to do for you, but we can’t do everything. It makes us think that what we give you isn’t enough.
- If we don’t have a job or if we have things to pay for and we buy you something out of the blue, know that we bought it with money we barely have. Appreciate it.
- If you tell us something that you’ll do, keep your word. We hate being let down. We might not show it, but we want you to do what you say because we put so much effort into you.
- We cannot read your minds. If we do not do exactly what you want, don’t punish us for it. We try, we try very hard to please you.
- If we need to be with our guy friends for a day, know that we are thinking about you the whole time and most likely texting you anyway. You might be sad that we cannot see each other, but just know it’s a much needed guy night.
- In bed, if you are getting everything you want, think about it from our view. We want to be happy too, so help us to.
- Assuming that the sex life is well, don’t make us out to be there to have sex and leave. We aren’t looking around how to get out of there(for most guys at least). We know we are right where we want to be.
- Don’t think for one minute that we cannot live without you in our lives. If we have lasted this long with you in our lives, we would die without you.
- Do not underestimate our sensitivity level. Just because we are guys does not mean that we don’t feel. Especially with you girls, our emotions and sensitivity level are at an all time high.
- When we look at you, don’t think we see you as a piece of meat. We are looking at how beautiful you are. Every part of your body seems to make us love you and want you more.
- Not every one of us has abs and rock hard muscles. Some of us may not have the best bodies, but hey, we do try. Don’t put us down. Love everything we have because we love you just as you are.
- You started off as wearing jeans, cardigans, sweaters, uggs, and flats. Then we get both get comfortable. Yes, we do love you wearing sweatpants and sweatshirts and shirts you don’t care about because they are comfy. But occasionally, we love seeing the girl we fell in love with dressed up like she was the first time we saw her.
- If you are with us for months, or even years, you should know that even though we do not own you, we hate it if you hug or are around other guys. We think the same as you. Not scared or jealous. We both just view each other as “you’re/I’m the only guy in my life” and “you’re/I’m the only girl in your life”
This is not a checklist, it’s a reminder. Just to show the girl in every mans life, that we don’t expect these things, but we would love it if you did these things. That is all we ask for.