Evoltion Of The Relationship…
It’s a little long, bare with me please…
Mind you, this is based off of personal thought, not personal observation of my own relationship and what my life has panned out to be. I’ve had my fair share of disappointment as well as being the one to disappoint, so I am no expert at how every relationship goes….but this should be somewhat in some way close to what two people in life, who are looking to find someone to be with, think…
Months 1-3: The period in the relationship with the most infatuation. Meaning, you like them. You see them as cute. You start to get to know them, but you can’t love them yet. It’s too soon. You most likely want to feel as if this could possibly be the first and last person you ever like, but you won’t know until a couple of months down the road to see if you even last. But still, you try so so hard if you feel like you could be in love to make this thing, this possibly once in a life-time relationship, actually work.
Months 4-8: If you lasted this long so far, you finally have come to realize that maybe this person stuck around this long this long because they care about you. You’ll fight like hell over anything. This is a hard part at first because it’s that breaking point between “is this relationship worth it” “i can’t take it anymore, I need to get out”. You might say this over any fight just because it seems like you’ve been together forever. You’ll just have to manage and get through whatever comes because it’s all worth it. Still, chances are, you probably aren’t in love yet, but you know that you definitely are on your way to it, or something like it. By now you should know mostly everything about your boyfriend or girlfriend. You should know their past, what they plan on doing soon, if you’re in their future. Now, it’s up to both of you to figure out if you want to have sex. You should be comfortable with them. If you don’t feel as comfortable yet, you will soon because you should know that you are everything that he/she wants. They picked you for a reason. Even if you don’t have abs and you have a normal body or you have abs or you have extra poundage or you have anything you find undesirable. Just know that they picked you, out of every other girl or guy, you ended up here, at this moment, being able to hold and kiss and hug and cuddle with that one person.
Months 9-12: Damn, the minutes just fly by. The weeks keep on going and you forgot that it’s pretty much a year that you’ve been with them. By now, most would have had sex or have done sexual things. You’ve found out the things that have become “yours”. “Yours” implies that you’ve found things that both of you loved. Whether it be tickling, holding him/her a certain way, waking up in the morning to texts, leaving notes, or anything that just both of you understand and no one will ever understand what it means to you. Your 1 year anniversary is a biggie. 1 year, 52 weeks, 365 days. You’ve probably made it longer in this relationship than your friends because relationships that last a 9-12 months don’t exist as much anymore. You’re proud to flaunt your boyfriend/girlfriend around because you love them. You’re comfortable enough to do whatever in front of them.
Year 1-2: You don’t even realize the so called monthly anniversaries. You look at your boyfriend/girlfriend and with every flaw you just love them even more. It depends who you are, but most might find themselves being in love. You’ve got to be completely comfortable by now. It isn’t like elementary school relationships anymore. Mainly speaking from 1.5 years and on to 2, love just seems amazing. Depending where you are in your age, you might be talking about the future. Not if you will last another couple months, but if you will get married. Plans, actual real plans for the future. You might fight, but you’ll always say sorry and cuddle in the end. This begins the cuddling stage. It’s about sex, but you need to take a break and cuddle it out sometimes. She definitely will appreciate it from the guys and the guys might say or look like they don’t all the time, but cuddling with you girls is everything guys want at that moment.
Year 2-3: It’s simple. You’re in love… What else is there to say. A kiss isn’t a kiss anymore, its I love you and care about you so so much. A hug isn’t a hug, its I can’t let go of you. Cuddling isn’t cuddling, it’s this is where I want to stay forever. Sex isn’t sex, it’s I can’t wait to look at you, to look at your body and marvel every inch of it like its the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen, to finally be able to have what you’ve wanted the whole week but couldn’t till the end (not wanting sex all week, but having you finally). From here on out, it’s just you and her/him. It’s the end of what you thought was great already, but the beginning of something far greater than you’ve ever imagined.
Year 3-∞: Everything you’ve worked for happens. Engaged, Married, Family, Kids, and……..Life…
Well, I guess it is kind of something based off of me and my life. But, I must say…. It’s pretty amazing. Just find out for yourself
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